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Because Pleasure Was God’s Idea
Providing Christian-centered sexual education and coaching that help Christian wives cultivate connection, confidence, and pleasure on purpose.
Start reconnecting today.


You love your husband, and you want to build a kingdom marriage, but life can leave you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and far from the connection you desire.
You are not broken. Your marriage is not broken. You are just disconnected.
You don’t have to fix this on your own; this is exactly why I created PLEASE ME®.

I guide Christian wives through real-life conversations around intimacy, confidence, and emotional connection. My coaching helps you feel seen, supported, and equipped to show up differently in your marriage without shame or pressure.

I designed the PLEASE ME experience as a practical way for wives to reconnect with themselves and their marriages. It turns intimacy into something you can understand, practice, and enjoy at home with your husband.

I teach Christian wives how to understand desire, build closeness, and create healthy intimacy in marriage. My work blends faith, education, and real-life tools so you can feel connected again emotionally and physically.

I’m Alexis Frederick-Bouy, MA, MEd. I help Christian wives understand intimacy in a way that feels safe, honest, and real. I teach with faith, education, and real-life experience. I keep things simple, honest, and a little fun so you can actually apply it in your marriage.
There’s more to intimacy!

I Finally Understand What Pleasure Means for Me
I loved the Please Me workshop. It helped me clearly define what pleasure means to me. One of the biggest barriers in my relationship has been finding a middle ground that satisfies both of us, but I understand it differently now. I feel more clarity and peace about how to move forward in my marriage. Thank you.
Danielle W.
