Reconnect On Purpose!


An intimacy workbook designed to help Christian couples reconnect Using The PLEASE MEยฎ framework.

Whatโ€™s Inside:

โ€ข PLEASE MEยฎ Pleasure Assessment (Workbook Edition) to help you and your spouse discover what brings each of you pleasure and learn how to experience intimacy in a more intentional way

โ€ข Relationship Assessments to help you understand your communication, connection, and the patterns that shape your marriage

โ€ข Guided Conversations to help you talk openly about love, intimacy, needs, desires, and sex

โ€ข Marriage Reflections to help you slow down, reconnect, and be more intentional about the way you love each other

โ€ข Date Night Experiences to help you create meaningful moments of fun, romance, and connection

โ€ข Intimacy Exercises & Challenges to help you rebuild closeness, strengthen desire, nurture sexual intimacy, and experience pleasure on purpose

โ€ข Couple Prayers to help you thank God for your marriage, honor your covenant, and invite Him into your journey of love and intimacy

โ€ข And so much more to help you create a marriage where connection is strengthened, intimacy is intentional, and pleasure is experienced on purpose.


Who It’s For

This workbook is for Christian couples who desire a deeper, more intentional connection in their marriage.

It is especially for the wife who wants to create meaningful conversations with her husband, better understand each otherโ€™s needs and desires, explore multiple expressions of intimacy, and create a plan to experience pleasure on purpose together.


Frequently Asked Questions

Is this workbook only for couples in crisis?
No. This workbook is for couples at every stage of marriage who want to strengthen their connection, deepen their intimacy, and experience pleasure on purpose.

Can this workbook help us if we already have a strong marriage?

Yes. Intimacy is something couples can continue to explore and strengthen at every stage of marriage.

Do I have to do this with my husband?
This workbook is designed for couples to complete together through guided conversations, reflections, and intimacy exercises.

What if my husband is not interested?
You can still begin the journey. This workbook helps you gain clarity, understand intimacy, and create opportunities for meaningful conversations with your spouse.

Is this workbook faith based?
Yes. This workbook is rooted in Christian values and helps couples explore intimacy, honor their marriage covenant, and experience pleasure as part of Godโ€™s design.

How long does it take to complete?
There is no set timeline. Couples can move through the workbook at their own pace and revisit the exercises and conversations throughout their marriage journey.

Is this only about sex?
No. This workbook explores multiple types of intimacy, including sexual intimacy, to help couples strengthen their relationship and experience pleasure on purpose.